I guess that you could say all of my children seem to be a little musically inclined. My husband insists that they got it from my side of the family, especially since he could never play a tune on any instrument, even after taking lessons.
We have guitars, a piano, saxophones and several other instruments in our house. But, like most parents, the biggest struggle I have is convincing my children to practice playing these instruments. All three of our children read music, and can also play by ear. That is, they can play tunes not just by memorization, but also by what they hear. Therefore, they really don't see the need to practice like they should.
Being involved in their musical education, I have developed an interest in playing the violin or fiddle. A couple of years ago, my parents gave me one as a gift. I have been fiddling around with it ever since. One instructor offered to give me my first lesson free, with no strings attached, so I plan to get started soon.
Just yesterday, I sighed when one of my sons approached me with great anticipation and asked if he could do something to the beat of a different drum — take drum lessons. Since I will taking violin lessons, my daughter piano and my other son guitar classes, I guess I should face the music, be upbeat and let him be instrumental in a new area. After all, it is important to be in tune with our children’s education and dreams.
Sherri Stephens is a columnist for MainStreet Newspapers Inc.